As your child grows up; and enter into teenage years, he is also stepping towards seriousness about himself and individualization. These changes make him to analyze himself as per the outside environment at each step as he grows and this way a child move slowly into adulthood. These step by step procedures required private time and individual space which you can also term as privacy.

Why individual space is important for children?

A good parent seeks to provide every important thing to his children and one of the very important things is freedom within limits. So, in some families, this is initiated by giving freedom to the child and concerning freedom, the first step can be taken by giving proper space to child, designated by your parameters. It is a kind of a positive enforcement. Let us know….HOW?

This will let him understand that you thinks for him, develop trust for you, broaden his activities by giving more time to studies, creative work, thinking strategically, realize the responsibility, think positive, working better for future endeavors, generating free and fresh mind, managing himself better, gives him confidence and let him develop his personality and so on. So, this way you will also skills for adulthood in your childhood.

The most important thing among all these cores is trust. He gains the self trust and knows that his behavior has consequences.

Feeling of Independence

A child living with you can recognize that you have limited resources, but you are still working hard to give him his own place, then your this attitude will foster a lot of gratitude that add with the independence. The feelings of independence easily transmits to better decision making skills, moving forward to choose better things and finally reach the high self esteem and stronger realization of his own personality traits that ultimately help him choose right career path and profession.

Because this positive reinforcement is done for future fruitful outcome, this is however understood that all this upward direction needs your guidance, and checks and balances. It can be a closet, a foyer, play space, reading area, small room or any place that a child can call his own. But the fact make all hidden gloom to fly when you will see your child growing with sense of independence, and personality traits that nourishes with sense like sense of responsibility, commitment, and obligation.

A Sort of Need

When your child matures, he enters into the new phase of individualization. And if he doesn’t get his own private environment, his personal traits and individual qualities get seized. The child can stop to listen to his own inner voice, doesn’t learn to make good choices, finding the right solution to problems, upcoming issues and consequences.

So, together with investing other areas, invest in your child too. One of the forms of investing in your child can be his induction in family business, if you have one. This will make him responsible; add personal growth with the emergence of lot of hidden qualities.